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Smoking & Sexuality

Posted by Diva on March 10th, 2010 | No Comments »

I myself have never been a smoker. Aside from those days back in college when I’d partake in the odd joint, cigarettes have so far never managed to seduce me. I’m not particularly anti smoking; I’ve had boyfriends in the past who smoked heavily and it didn’t bother me. I was just so proud of myself for making it through secondary school without bowing to peer pressure that I thought it would be silly to start now, and I’d heard that it can give you premature wrinkles so I steered clear.

However, I never managed to disassociate smoking with being cool; all of the coolest girls in school were puffing away from the age of 13, and I would gaze at them in awe admiring their bravado for breaking the rules. Even in my 20s, watching my ex smoke always turned me on a bit, and I actually liked the smell of him afterwards. Ashtrays are nasty, but a man with cigarette smoke is sexy.

I know for a fact that some escorts lie on their profiles; they might knock a few years off their age, a few inches off their waist or add a cup size to their bust. Similarly, many are advertised as non smokers then get rumbled by clients when they turn up smelling of fags. But what about the clients who do like smokers?

Photo by Tayler Aleks

Photo by Tayler Aleks

I’ve recently heard from ‘Dave’, one of a group of men who have a fetish for smokers. He isn’t a smoker himself, but he finds seeing a gorgeous girl light up “erotic, glamourous, sensual, alluring, confident, seductive, sophisticated and more than a touch of the slutty bad girl about it”. I can completely understand this; smoking can be very sexy. Have you ever tried doing a blow back? It might just make you come in your knickers.

For men like Dave, it’s frustrating for escorts to lie on their profiles. They actually want to meet girls who do smoke, and they want to see her do it. You’ll find a fetish for almost everything out there, and I hadn’t really considered this one before; but now I think about it, it might be more popular than I realised!

x Diva x