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Masturbation

Posted by Diva on February 4th, 2010 | No Comments »

I was 13 when I had my orgasm. In the year leading up to that, I’d noticed that it felt nice to touch myself down below; wearing tight jeans, I’d lean forward so that the seam rubbed against my clitoris, but at the time I didn’t really know what a clit was! I remember exactly where I was when I first climaxed. My parents had left me home alone, and I was watching a video taped off the TV. After the film finished, it flickered into another film that I didn’t recognise – something French. I watched wide eyed as a middle aged married man carried a young lady to a window, and proceeded to have full sex with her. I later found out that film was Last Tango in Paris, and that scene was rewound many a time for my pleasure. As I watched it a second time, I drew all the curtains and unbuttoned my jeans. I rubbed where it felt nice, then got impatient and pulled my jeans and knickers down to my ankles. Rewinding the scene once again, I felt myself get moist and used this to rub myself faster. My first orgasm was quite short because I was scared to carry on, but I remember feeling my whole body get hot and tremble violently.

Since then, my masturbation patterns have varied greatly. Sometimes I’ll do it several times a day, sometimes not for a week. My husband enjoys watching me as I do him; sometimes we watch porn together and watch each other get off.

Masturbation should never be something you’re ashamed of. Everyone starts at different ages, and unless you do it so much that it interferes with your work or social life, it’s not a problem. Men have a limit on how many times they can ejaculate in a day (it varies), so don’t get irritated if they’re worn out and can’t manage any more sex. That’s perfectly normal; in fact, most men come once then want to  go to sleep!

Women can actually increase their libido by pleasuring themselves often; use the skills you’ve learned to teach your man how you like it. It’s a beautiful thing!

x Diva x

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